Familie

look at those cobwebs. smells like a crypt here. even kamun seems to be absent, but if u were here, maybe u'd like to check out http://hokkienlang.blogsome.com/

hehe, enjoy.

Familie

hi hi, i m so happy, my sis is coming back today! arrive on the 12.30pm flight!
ok, just a quick reply to ka mun and joo khai's entry.

to KM : dun worry, we'll meet up so i will keep you guessing! haaha
to JK : i guess i happen to click and read all those 3 entries by WL so that was why confusing.

so what have i been up to? checking out special doors.
yes, DOORS! how exciting :P :)
anyway, not that anyone really needs to know but now there are such things called fibreglass stacking doors.
great for your garage doors if you can afford it. cost about RM110K for one set. german product. :)

bye,
tee lee

wah... sorry man. damn blur. of course alvin's the youngest, what was i thinking? maybe becoz of 2-yee, so i keep thinking 2nd child. yes all of us younger to alvin Will be a bit surprised to hear his naughty past.

don't worry u weren't neglected. i think i was in the same situation as u... we're very guai people, so after a certain time parents just leave us to our own devices, to grow and learn on our own pace. it's good. =)

my blog where got confusing. ok maybe it is, coz my thoughts are all over whenever i write, so instead of micro fiction piece it's like a compilation of events and thoughts. coz i get lazy to blog, so when i do, i write about a lot of things in one go, hehehe.

anyway wanlian - yea, my gf which some of u do and do not know... but saying it's confusing becoz of her doesn't make sense, becoz there's only like 3 of her entries in history.

so my last semester has started and i am readjusting. i hate readjusting. isn't it sheer bliss in the workforce, when all the measly readjusting u do is in the weekend, that it doesn't really count? er... i dunno. i think i'm being very cynical now just for the heck of it. just dowanna grow up, dowanna work, dowanna duties, just wanna hang out and lepak and for time to stand still.

ah hello ....
that malay lady's blog sounds interesting! Do u have the url, I would love to have a look...
haha, glad to hear that at least a few ppl read my blog... sometimes it seems like i'm writing more for myself (which, actually, is the whole point) but i like hearing from ppl too. if you have anything want to say, you can comment...
hey, remember u said you'd tell me what my 'present' was when we met, but it seems we dont' have much of a chance to meet.... T.T maybe someday...

alvin kor, i would love to whoop her on the ass, bt it's not sth my family allows... -.-""

jook, how can you say that? *horrified look* she reads this blog, you know!!! well maybe it's not so much boarding school but not enough discipline... discipline is very important, you know... parents play an important role in disciplining their children...well actually scratch that because most of my childhood i was quite ( i don't want to use the word 'neglected' because my mum feels very offended) ... ah u get the idea lar, and i turned out fine, dind't I ?

and, if alvin isn't the 2nd child, then it's kin kor, isn't it? ... hor... shh shhh, dont' say a thing to him.... ;)

Familie: July 2005

hi guys!

it's me, tee lee. i am so happy i can get into this blog today!
for the past few months i dunno why but when i access it,
i get it linked to another person's homepage. so then i end up
reading their blog which can be quite amusing! the latest one
i read was this single malay lady raising her 3 kids.
her blog revolved around her family and her stories about her
youngest kid is pretty funny! apparently she was describing her kid
being so happy about going ot the dentist, jumping aorund saying,
"Yay, kita pergi dentist!" X 2
she was saying her own kid, the otak tak center! haahaha funny lady!

anyway, i digress...

so HY you coming back this weekend? that's cool!
i havent seen you in what... 3 or 4 years?
are you staying back for a while? cos tee ming is back on 22 july.
maybe you get to see her and her kids too!

me and tee ching set up this tmnet prepaid ONE thing over the weekend.
didn't have much success so we asked ah yap koko for help and he kindly obliged.
so now the thing is working, finally! we jut set this up so that tee ming can have
internet access during her 1.5 months here.

ka mun, i do enjoy reading your blogs, they are so full of 'heart' and realistic!
and they also remind me of the thoughts and feelings i use to have when i was back in secondary school.

joo khai's blog is sometimes confusing cos there is another writer, wan lian?
who is that? your gf, joo khai? i am just guessing! i thoguht wan lian was a guy then i read somewhere that
jk got so happy when wan lian squeezed his arm or something liek that.
then i figured... hmmm, have ot be a girl or else 3che will be pretty worried! hehehe

ok i better go now. regards to all. tee ching and me planning to cut hair with tee ming when she comes down.
anyone interested ot join us? no need to cut hair la, just excuse to meet up, catch up, have makan or a drink. will sms the
detials to you guys later.
bye!!

hey JK...how am i the 2nd child? i thought i am the youngest?! hmm

anyways...kamun...thanks for the "alvin...brat?!?! no way!!!" comment =P
actually i was a real pain in the butt when i was younger...pretty much NEED to have everything my way...and sometimes i think that i contributed most of the stress that gave mum her stroke. anyways really dunno what to say about kaling. just stick to what you believe is right/good and if she gets too annoying...just open a big can of whoopin' on her ASS!!! =) hehe

hey i will be back in KL end of this week...catch up then ok!!! take care all!!!

aaahahah my sis also was sent to boarding school. hm see a pattern?

Alvin was a pain! But he was nothing like kl...because my mum was the victim. Maybe the word victim is not the right word, she was the only one that let him have his way. Well, he is the 'lai chei'.
Uuummm kl's issue is different. He irritated me, provoked me. So guess who is the one that gets the blame at the end of the day. If we look at history, send her to a boarding school. Ka Mun you will miss her. You will realize you love her. You really do. Thats my experience.

alvin, a brat? no way!!!
(would like to hear what he has to say abt this, tho')

hehe... thanks for the advice...
so training her to be like that also means training myself to act like that ...

first, be nice. if u are, then good. it's always good to be nice on your part. then when u really cannot tahan, let loose, like real loose, scream her down if she starts, and get violent. the point of this tactic is a to inspire Terror. but remember it's a long battle and this is just one tactic among many.

my dad the kindly uncle kuah uses this to great effect. in my entire life i've only seen him really mad for a few times but in these rages, not even heaven stands in his way. it's a terror crusade, which is why death is just a by-product (hehe). but it's a more pleasant story with my mom...

i was in the younger end of primary school and going through an extremely rude phase, and all my mom took was - one - overblown outburst, howling like a hurricane. yi ming jing ren, one drastic change. which also shows it is how u employ your tricks as well as when. i'd never have believed it of her. and in those tender years, a shock like this sticks so much so i've truly been more polite to this day.

think of it: u put her in her place, 'condition' her, and she'll respect u more in the long run. my dear bro and sis are also like this sometimes... which may explain a bit of me and a bit of why i'm the pacifist. =) anyway, if u make it very clear u have both in/tolerant sides, then she'll be more wary. around u, that is... hmm. that doens't solve the problem does it?

maybe alvin can shed some light. being a 2nd child too, and everyone says he used to be a brat.